{"id":940,"date":"2012-05-29T21:33:12","date_gmt":"2012-05-30T04:33:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.scottandjenn.com\/wordpress_sj\/?p=940"},"modified":"2012-05-29T21:33:12","modified_gmt":"2012-05-30T04:33:12","slug":"can-ava-play","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.scottandjenn.com\/wordpress_sj\/2012\/05\/29\/can-ava-play\/","title":{"rendered":"can ava play?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Something is very different at our house.<\/p>\n<p>Is it cleaner?  Not so much.<\/p>\n<p>Did we get a new pet?  Maybe.  if you count the stink bug in the roly-poly house and the caterillar in the butterfly habitat.  but that&#8217;s not really different, we always have a lot of unusual pets around here.  (thanks nana nancy for the 100+ lady bugs!)<\/p>\n<p>Did we replace our carpet with hardwood floors?  i wish.   <\/p>\n<p>What&#8217;s different is that our shy little girl is suddenly a social butterfly!  It&#8217;s a different that I am not quite comfortable with.  but I&#8217;m getting there.  Ava be-bops around the neighborhood and is making a lot of friends.  <\/p>\n<p>All of her playdates from birth until now have been very structured and planned.  I know the parents and I know the kids.  Now, Ava is always outside playing with someone. someone I don&#8217;t know.  someone who&#8217;s parents I&#8217;ve never met! There&#8217;s a gladness and a sadness in my heart.  I miss her.  and I&#8217;m proud of her.  She makes wise choices while with her friends, and always comes home to ask before going into someone&#8217;s house or their backyard. I am especially happy when her friends want to play at our house!  I try to make them love it too, by offering fun activities and delicious snacks.  She&#8217;s got one friend who only wants to play at his house.  Ava has been gone at his house for up to 4 hours!  Sometimes I try to make up excuses as to why she needs to come home. she&#8217;s not in any sports, dance class is over, we&#8217;ve already done our grocery shopping, there&#8217;s really no reason that she <em>has<\/em> to come home&#8230; &#8220;ava come home, annalise and I miss you.&#8221;  somehow I don&#8217;t think that would fly with her.  <\/p>\n<p>We&#8217;ve entered a new chapter in parenting.  and to be honest, i&#8217;m terrified. <\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/scottandjenn\/7230882270\/\" title=\"Untitled by scott.fuhrman, on Flickr\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/farm8.staticflickr.com\/7236\/7230882270_c098625ba6.jpg\" width=\"500\" height=\"333\" alt=\"Untitled\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/scottandjenn\/7230893962\/\" title=\"Untitled by scott.fuhrman, on Flickr\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/farm6.staticflickr.com\/5200\/7230893962_7e95171d22.jpg\" width=\"500\" height=\"333\" alt=\"Untitled\"><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Something is very different at our house. Is it cleaner? Not so much. Did we get a new pet? Maybe. if you count the stink bug in the roly-poly house and the caterillar in the butterfly habitat. but that&#8217;s not really different, we always have a lot of unusual pets around here. (thanks nana nancy [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-940","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-ava"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.scottandjenn.com\/wordpress_sj\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/940","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.scottandjenn.com\/wordpress_sj\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.scottandjenn.com\/wordpress_sj\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.scottandjenn.com\/wordpress_sj\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.scottandjenn.com\/wordpress_sj\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=940"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"http:\/\/www.scottandjenn.com\/wordpress_sj\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/940\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":944,"href":"http:\/\/www.scottandjenn.com\/wordpress_sj\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/940\/revisions\/944"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.scottandjenn.com\/wordpress_sj\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=940"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.scottandjenn.com\/wordpress_sj\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=940"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.scottandjenn.com\/wordpress_sj\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=940"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}